Some of The Person behind the random thoughts

Hi there

Today I’m going to tell who I am.

Yep “should” had done it before. But nope did not want to draw all attention from what I have to say with whom I am and other facts about me. But I decided to share some of my life that may help or make people more aware of some things.

OK let’s go to the point.

My name is Zunette . But known as Susy. Born in the 84. I’m from Curacao. Grew till my 6 in on a see side neighborhood then moved with my parents to a neighborhood on a mountain side till now. Yep I’m still live with my parents.

First child of my mother. Second of my father. I have a little brother. He is 3 years younger from same mother and father.

I’m a naturally curious, creative, cute and some times raw. I’m really playful and really serious when I have to.  I can switch from A to Z if it is required. Always been a thinker.

Did administration and management at school.

Love learning new things, read books and online. I’m a certified crafter. I love it and would not want to live without it. Creating new nice things is what I love about it.

I like singing, dancing, painting and makeup. I do belly dancing (tribal and cabaret), ballet, contemporary dance and dubstep. No never followed any type of classes. When I do dance I dance my soul out.

I write poetry and like cooking and improvising in it. I’m very talkative but most of the time I’m quiet cause I’m analyzing something or situation around me. I’m a vegetarian from soul.

I’m much of a caged free spirit. (“Prisoner “of my situation)

Why I made this blog?

First I started it because I’m use to helping people with my advice and like to talk about important topics of life and culture.

So I decided to do it openly. I’m not pretending to know it all cause I don’t. But it is better to get more opinions about something that just getting 1 that may not be helping you have different point of view. And second it started trying to keep myself busy. I will explain why and details about it in my next post about me.

I just want to make these thoughts more useful. Keeping them to myself or only to a few is selfish. And I’m not.

http://www.curacao.com Link to the site of my beautiful native Island.

 

I hope you liked this post. Till next week 

Yes I’m a daddy

Awe…. So cute!! A father  playing with his child. I really admire that. That really warms my heart.

But lets go to the point.

What I don’t  admire of justify is when they fill there mouths saying that they are fathers  and they don’t act like one.

• ·         They don worry/care about there child health
• ·         The don’t talk or have any communication with there child
• ·         Even if the have only one or two kids the don’t remember there birthday and/or age
• ·         They don care about there feeding or education
• ·         They never participate in any of there activities

Pleas is this so difficult?

Why on earth do you go out and have sex without any protection, if you are not able to be responsible  or give a child some attention. Cause we all know that the outcome of unprotected sex is pregnancy or an STD.

Why put a life on earth when you don’t want to make it as happy as possible? And I say want cause you can be short on money but Love and Care are Free.

Is that so difficult? No right?

If you can’t pleas don’t have kids. Not even to make your family get bigger or what so ever. Don’t do it.

You are going to responsible for one more unhappy being walking around with all the risks that they may become if the get frustrated enough.

I don’t have children myself but my heart, guts and conscience tell me that you only seek for an other life to come in to your journey of life  is to make it as happy as possible.

I can’t believe that there are so many people that have so much love to give and are some times unable to give it out like they would had want to (example love a child of there own). And other don’t bother loving there own blood.

People you don’t know what you are missing!!!

The love of a child to there parent/s is the most pure, beautiful  and biggest thing ever. The best thing that parent will ever get.

I can not understand why you could not care about your own Love bundle.  It only ask for love and gives it back.

What I can not either understand are parents that abuse and take out things on there child. You wanna take out your anger? Why abuse that poor kid? You are unhappy?Hit a wall it does not have feelings and will not hate you later. That wall will not feel rejected by the person that he/she loves most.

Fix it without getting your  kids mixed in. It is your problem not  theirs. Remember that your child did not choose to be in your life or even in this world.

You did!!

Don’t send them out to get a job so you could stop working or work less. There life was not there choice it was yours. Don’t break your kids dreams cause you did not get yours.

I think parenting is about giving the best to your offspring. Because you did not have education you should provide it to them.  It is about providing you child of things that are necessary that maybe you did not have. I'm not talking about only material goods. But about creating an well balanced emotional being.

So pleas love, help and care about your child. Cause you will receive it back from them.

The Friend zone

Welcome to the "friend zone" where you will always keep loving her/him for ever end never getting that kind of love back.

Let me start by saying to stop being stupid!! That damn thing called Friend zone does not exist.

There are 2 things: friends or not friends.

In all that you get different section.  

Friends:

. Friends

. Just friends

. Best friends

. Party friends

. Friends with benefits etc.

Not friends:

. Someone you know

. Enemy/ someone you hate etc.

People have to understand 1 thing. They like you or the don’t. If they don’t, what ever!! There are more human on this would walking around looking for some one to love.

But try to get to know if it is because you are friends or it is something of your personality.

If it is your personality, Game over and search for an other playmate for your game.

If the friendship is the reason, then try to know if this person is able to divert from her/his position and be able to be in a relationship with you.

Because sometimes we are secretly attracted to a friend and we would not say it. No mater what ‘cause you like you are as friends.

 Let’s be real, sometimes people end up banging someone you would ever think about.  And that is because this person showed you something you would not think they would or could do.

So you are so silly and laid back that you use the damn thing called “friend zone” as an excuse.

Stop that!! I’m telling you stop that!! Stop making a fool of yourself cause most of us are not. And maybe you are in that group.

If this person likes you and may be able (try) to have a relationship with you, you should think about it. Do you want to keep a friend or you really want this affair?

If you prefer to stay as you are now that is called KEEPING A FRIEND NOT FRIEND ZONING. Some times it is better that way.

Because in this world we have some type of people that are more playful then elves and love to play around and break hearts.

So you better safe then sorry. Some people just wanna have fun and you just want to have love.  And getting hurt is not the goal.

 But if it may be safe to start a new chapter with some one in your life, you better give it a try. You never know!!

I wanna ad to this that I’m not the best in love business and not a professional. But I just was giving my opinion about it. Remember  this is just a random though. 

Regards to all those that believe in that lie called the Friend zone.

The miserable

Some times every thing goes wrong. 

Not some times, when it goes wrong all the time!!

You feel like you wanna die and start all over, to see if there can be a change for you.

Well to die is not an option. 

So life is a B. So you have to F... the hell out of her. Because a happy B… make your life easy.

I know you that  some times you feel like not having enough to pound her with.  That means that you have to learn an other way to make her walk every day with a big smile and giving you “what you want”.

We all make plans in this life .and for some damn reason you find yourself 10 years away and you don’t understand when it went wrong. And you don’t have that time to go back and fix it.  So now you are doomed !!

Nope you are not completely doomed. The science of live is  that if you fail, try to have a plan B. You could  go through all plans that you could and failed? F.... it and get something else to put your time in to.

Don’t worry if you feel discouraged. That is normal and you have the right to. But don’t stay in that state for long cause you are gonna waist more time. And you already lost  a lot. 

So don’t waist time and get a new plan/project.

And always make small steps. No mater how long it takes. But it is a way to avoid domino effect or big fails. Cause you could see it coming before it hits you again.

So the thing is: 

Intro to My blog

Hi,

I know that I may say some things that may not be the most positive things ever and I may get a lot of hating for it (this is the internet). But I’m not here to give any self-help discourse. And I’ll take some things that have been on my mind so long.  I’m just bringing the reality forward. At least mine. I don't know yours. 

But I've been noticing that there are more persons having same problems

So if it helps you in something go on and use it.