Lair, Lair your pants are gonna set on fire

Since I can remember I can see people trying to use others. 

And using has 2 sides.

1 when you ask for help and this person accepts to help you

or

2 not telling that person that you want something from them and lie and manipulate to get it.

Case: You want the sex but not a relationship.

Example 1: you say the truth and get yourself a nice and sexy friend with benefit.

  Or

Example 2: you run after some random person and tell them that you love them and make them love/like you to get the sex you wanted. And then run when things get serious in that relationship.

Why do you prefer to lie people? Don’t you think someone may find out? Wouldn’t that be more trouble?

I don’t get it! 

I think lying takes to much time and effort. In that kind of stuff I’m really lazy. I don’t like waist time in doing much effort tin things that could be easier. I’ll rather sew by hand and not do such useless tasks.

Some prefer to say the truth and get a straight on and then try someone else. You never know. You may get a yes. Cause after they get you lying the question is: what now?

People will not trust you ever again. Having trust of the people around you is one of the most important things in life.

Why risk so much lying? 

Maybe you don’t care now. But some day you will. Even if it is on the day that you are dying you will and it will be late. 

If you are not worried about the people around you, what are you worried about? 

Not about what they may say. But about how the feel having you around.

Some people lie to get peoples acceptance. But doesn’t it cause the opposite?  And more if you did hurt someone with your lies.

Isn’t Life about the people that want to have you in there lives? 

Sometimes when you say the truth others may not like what you are saying or who you are but they would be in your life cause you are real. You are not faking anything and the know what to expect of you. Someone that cares about you (the real you) will love and accept you even if they don’t like you.

So why lie?

 If you are a”monster” show your true colors and then try to “fix” yourself. (Change what is not acceptable) cause being a douche bag is not acceptable at all.

Stop wasting your and other persons time and on acting stupid.