Two sided knife

Wenaaaass Hi ya!!

Lately I have been receiving some chain messages that got me a little upset. This kind of thing always had bother me. I think that some people don’t really watch out what they send to others.

I’m talking about chains that may be telling you a joke, a prayer or something and after wards telling you that they wish you the best but if you don’t pass this on certain amount of persons you’ll get bad luck and what so ever.

What is that all about?

Are you telling me a joke or are you passing some kind of bad energy/thought around? 

I mean really, what is that?

You show love to me or you wish me the worst? 

You can’t like send me a chain saying God loves you but if you keep this to yourself you will die.

Think for a second.

What that say about you when you send something like that to someone?

You are sending out a double sided blade/knife and if I get cut is it only my responsibility and problem?

Hmm well in my opinion it is not. Do you understand what means: what comes around goes around?

Do I have to explain it?

It is easy. 

When you send that kind of message you are sending subliminal message wishing wrong to an other and asking others to do the same.

(Raw description) It is like have unprotected sex with a person that fornicates around.

Easy equation

You+ that person= you get there germs and they get yours. 

That other people that this person has sex with has sex with get ya’ll germs and pass it on to other.  And so on. 

Ewww :S

Who’s fault? 

Us all. You for trusting someone and having unprotected sex (not so guilty but more naïve) and that person for thinking that sharing and accumulating germs is cool.

Soooo…..

Now one more point. 

The difference between wishing wrong and warning of something. 

Warning is: if you keep on behaving like a jerk, someone will snap and hit you some day. That is something that may really happen.

Not that if I don’t do what you want I’ll get hit by a car or something. That is crazy! 

Some say that you should not believe in them that is why they send them any ways. 

Aaaaam Contradictory again. If you don’t believe in it why send it?

If you don’t believe in it CUT IT OFF and then send your joke or prayer or what ever it is. 

Doesn’t it sound better like that? With no bull sh*t.

That is when we don’t think and doe for doing. With won’t bring us anywhere in life.

I hope you got the point of this. And that you would think about it before you send something like that.

We are perfect

Wenaaaaas Hi ya!!

I wanted to start this year with something more positive then normally

It’s about Perfection in human beings.

You look around and what do you see? Human, walking souls carrying bones flesh and amazing features. A party of eyes, lips, ears, noses, hair, body shapes and skin tones. Different ways of moving, sounds and smells.

None of them are the same even how much the look a like. All of them Perfect in there own way.

Yep Perfect! In some way.

As far as we understand perfection does not mean the same to us all. What you like and think is perfect must not be perfect to me or somebody else. It depends on what brings up that good feeling in you.

People may have there own opinion or feeling about how they would like to see you or some other. 

But doesn’t it depend on how comfortable you feel the way you are?

If you feel okay all natural or with make up, dressed in a certain way or not dressed :p

If you think you need a cosmetic fix to be your view of perfect, it all depends on your own taste.

People are art pieces. 

Some of them do not look that appealing but there is always gonna be someone that would stare at it with dreamy eyes, wondering about this beautiful art.

Come on even Quasimodo had his beautiful side.

Yeah I’m being funny now. But yes he was sweet to others, even when some where afraid of him and treated him like a monster.

Of course Quasimodo beauty was inside but that counts to right?

You know why people rejected him?

Because they only saw his hump on his back and his not much appealing face.

But did they knew how much of a good person he was or how much he could love Esmeralda?

Nooooh!!!

People search for what is perfect or normal.

But what is normal?

Nothing really is. 

That normal thing is just a standard. And is it necessarily the best thing for you? 
No

So it depends again if it is good for you or not. If it brings that good feeling to you or not.

The point of perfection is that thing that gives you that good feeling that makes you feel that this is the right thing or person or situation.

So never judge a book by its cover. But search for the history inside. Appreciate everyone how ever they are.

A new year

Weeeeenassss, Hi ya!!

Bon aña tur hende!!

In our language (Papiamentu) here on Curacao means Good year to you all.

First I want to wish you success in all this year. That all you want may get accomplished.

Second I want to thank you all for reading what this highly opinioned lady has to say. And to really taking me serious when I gave some advice. Thank you so much cause I know I’m not doing the for nothing.

And last I want to apologize for not being constant. But Things happen and I got drifted away by uncontrollable situations. I know. I know no excuses. And I’m not intended to give you excuses. I’m just explaining cause you deserve that.

Any way. That little situation is behind the back and now it is time to get back on track.

This year I’ll try to bring more of other things that I would like to talk about but not forgetting what I’m here for. And of course telling you more about me.

So now!! Let this year be awesome!!

Be good and responsible.

Love you all.

Susy

Help stop living animal charms

The post of this week is just because something made me angry. This is totally spontaneous. 

A year ago or so I saw on the TV  about animal charms. And like every one we thought that it would stop cause people where protesting against it. But to my surprise I get a post on Facebook  to sign a petition to help stop this.

See link here: http://blog.yummypets.com/en/live-animals-being-sold-as-key-rings-in-china/

And I was thinking : Why is this still going on?

 What was in the person that made this head?

Putting an animal in a bag with air and something to survive for 2 moths is animal cruelty.  

Are they mad? 

I mean, what is wrong with them?

I mean look at this>>

Does this look cute or fun to you?

Be real !! Would you like being in that bag? No. So why do it to an animal?

Those are living creatures!!!

Why didn't they stop this earlier? I don't know how this commerce could even get a license to do this.

Isn't it better to see this>> 

He/she is "happy"in its pond ,

NOT IN A BAG!!

Pleas every one sigh the petition to help stop it and share this.

All cute animals that could had died like this would thank you if the could.

Cause they can't, but I can, I thank you in advance for helping these poor creatures. I hope you get a lot of good Karma for saving there lives.

Thanks for reading. Much hugs and kisses

Broken Hearted

Lately life has not been the same to me and my family (at home).  I lost someone I really love. It has been 4 and half years of pure love and fun.

The first time I saw him was love at first sight. And at that moment I knew that he was different.

At first, getting to know each other was difficult. But later he calmed down after constantly hugging and spoiling him. Don’t get me wrong. He did not have a bad attitude.  He was just acting like a spoiled brat. But we told him that if you be nice you’ll have anything you want.

As time passed by we became more attached to each other. Nothing could happen without having him in mind. He was the center of my world. Cause he is my baby and I love him.

Warining: If you do not wanna read about a broken heart because of a lost pet pleas stop reading now!!

He was Valentino. Best known as Mr. Valentine or Tino.

He was My cat. His name is because he was a gift of some one very special for me on a valentines day. And I loved him since I saw his cute little face when he was 1 month old. We love that spoiled brat so much here (at home). Even my dad that does not really like cats (he is afraid of them) misses him.

And I’m saying was because some heartless bastard killed My poor baby. I could not do anything about it.

He was a good baby. He did not harm anyone. Not even my neighbor stupid chickens that walk in my yard all the time. He did not even pay attention to does animals cause he was not interested. He did not steel. He was clean. Never ate anything he killed. He would bring them to me. Hahah it was some kind of gift I suppose.

But that heartless bastard does not like cats and poisons them every time he gets the chance. And on this island there is no law against killing pets.

What gives you the right to take advantage of the curiosity of the poor kitties and poison them? Cause it was not only my pet that was gone.

I can not talk about how other pet owners feel. I can talk about me and my family (at home). My mother feels devastated .She does not want a new pet like that again.

 Cause what is the case to raise a kitten (pet) like a human child and loose him like that?

Don’t get me wrong Tino was not an indoor only cat. He did get out to play of sometimes sleep out. He is an animal he should have some freedom. But nothing happen cause I gave him freedom. It happen when I started feeling like I need to keep him inside. Cause he was liking outdoors with other cat to much and I wanted him do be inside a little more. I don’t know why but I did feel the need for it.

So if I let him run free and does not hurt anyone or steel anything, why hurt him?

Not even in his grumpy days he was a good baby. Yes he would bite but not like that. Only if you hurt him or playing but that has a trick to make him bite.

Tino did like to play with his toys and watch TV. He would sit and stare at you to get your attention so he can walk to the fridge to show you that he wants something in there. He was well fed and spoiled. Got snack more then I do. He would not touch your food if you did not start or finish eating. Would not climb to get anything at all. Valentino was an intelligent, expressive and well trained cat. So was it just bad luck what happen? Nooooooh cause no animal should be killed like that. And worst just because some monster wants it so. Cause no one can say that is was not this person that did this.

I will not say much about how this has affected me. But it is hard I have problems sleeping more then normal. I have to convince myself that he will not come meowing on the window like crazy if we leave him outside. Or that I have to close my door so he would not come in and pee in my closet. Or be able to hug him ever again.

I really miss him. He was the best medicine to my depression or anxiety.

I’m glad of having 4 years full love and fun memories of him.

In memory of  Valentino (R.I.P. 2013) 

Why biatches why?

Who are biatches?

Biatch is a female that her attitude gives a lot to think about. (And not in a good way)

1.    She has been hurt by a man and now wants to hurt any other in her way. By cheating or getting material goods from him and making his live miserable.

2.    She lives for the money and decide to get any man just for the money. And that does not include loving him.

3.    Her way to treating others makes you wanna hit them with a stick cause of her bad attitude.

Ow girls! When are we gonna understand that our wrong behavior causes more wrong behavior?

1.    Like I told the guys. Finish you unfinished business with the one that you have it with. And then start fresh again

2.    If you want his money can you at least give him some love? If you want money give something in exchange. That is how the world goes. Nothing is for free.

3.    Girl pipe the f down! Start being good and the world will be good at you.

It is proof that action causes reaction. But we still won’t think about the consequences of our acts.

Ok life may get boring but that is just to prevent unnecessary bull shit. There may be enough trouble in life for you to make more by yourself.

Ladies we are fragile at body but man are at mind. We can take a lot but they can’t. They struggle with little things and some times can not life with some things. Guys don’t take me wrong you are strong and all but we as woman take much more physiological bull shit that you can.  We woman can not make there lives more difficult by tormenting them.

We are here to make each other happy.  Man and women and vise versa. So why can we make each others lives easy?

Remember that less unnesesary bull shit makes our lives happier

The Thanks

Guys thanks for not getting mad at me for not posting for a few weeks. But I think I have to explain that when I feel to sick or depressed to sit on the pc and make an objective dissertation about things I will Not do it.

Like my pasarela teacher said to me(to the hole group) a time ago: If you are gonna do some thing do it Well or do not do it!

So I better not do it and later regret it. Cause I’m a perfectionist. Failed but perfectionist.

I hope that you will stay this good and any time I need some time off I’ll be able to taking it without people going crazy about me not being constant.

But those that know how auto-immune diseases can wreck you may understand that no mater how under control I may have it it is gonna break me down some times and stop me from going my way.  And I don’t have only one diseases to deal with, so sh*t may get HARD some times.

But guys THANKS to all those that understand me and cared about my health and for not minding me taking some time off.

Love you all

Susy 

Why Players why?

Attention this is not hate speech against all man. This is about those that make themselves guilty on heart breaking and using others.

And here comes the question again. Why Lord why? Why don’t some people think? Why does the innocent have to pay for what others did in the past?

I question the way humans think a lot (mine to some times). Cause we seem to do the weirdest things. Even if we are one of the most intelligent beings we act like the dumbest.

Types of players

1.    He is afraid of an serious relationship and starts having fun breaking hearts
2.  chick broke  his heart  and he’ll break others (innocent or not) hearts
3.    Nothing is wrong but he is just an other douche bag that thinks that females are made of his use.

Case 1 : Like I said in some post away, ask and you’ll get what you want.

 Why make life difficult? You have to start somewhere. People can and should not live in fear of daily situations. Stop being coward please. Cowards are not attractive at all.

Case 2 : The innocent pays for the past sinners.

 Why dude? Finish your unfinished business with her not with others. New person means new start. Learn that!!  A new relationship is a new opportunity for both. But don’t forget YOUR Old mistakes.

Case 3 : The insensitive douche bag.

 Aaamm dude do you have a mother? Good or bad you have/had one. Cause humans are not made in a lab. So the one that gave you life is a woman. So respect woman!! The are and will be mothers, sisters, grandmothers and daughters. Think that you could be the reason why more people may be behaving wrong.

Players are the reason of lesbians, lonely woman and b*tches. I’m not saying that any of them are right in there behavior but come on, we have to start somewhere.

A good man should be example of those around him. And as Kings and Leaders that you are you should know better. Men are those that should protect the family (the tribe). So if you seek female company is because the man wants that woman in his family (and to make it bigger).

So please don’t make life difficult. Be the intelligent being that you should be.

Annoying people on the bus

You are going to take a transport to your way, and as any public transport user you get in a bus. If you did wake up in a Good mood your day will probably get messed up by some human walking problem. Oh Lord why oh why?

Don’t you dislike people that act like they don’t want to fit with others and so they annoy everyone else?

Here are some examples of this type of person.

Then unwanted DJ

This person plays his/her phone with music so loud and some times there is already something playing. So you end up hearing a headache causing noise. Hey can you, can you play DJ at home? Or somewhere you don’t bother anyone else? Pleas don’t contaminate the air with your noise. You know there are 2 good inventions to let you give you the freedom to play what ever without disturbing others. They are earphones and headphones. Do you know those? The would be cool if you USE THEM!!

The kwak kwaki di kwak

That person that talks so much and loud that without wanting it you end up being part of his/her conversation. Aaagggg pleas we don’t wanna know you business. Please on one wants to be traumatized by your personal problems. Please pleas not so loud. Could you?

  

The bad-hearted Samaritan

That person that is so nice to share there germs with you by coughing or sneezing in font of the ventilation in an air-conditioned bus. Please  if you have a flu don’t sit in front of the ventilation. That is disgusting. We appreciate that you wanna share. But not your germs. There are so many ways to prevent spreading germs. Like handkerchiefs and paper towels. Please KEEP YOUR GERMS TO YOURSELF!!

The Royalty

That person that thinks that the bus is his/her taxi and should hurry to get where they want to go. Cause they are the only one paying here. Aaaammmm (breath and count to ten) hello this is a bus, not your taxi or your car. If you don’t like the route you should not be here. You should call a taxi or get a damn car. YOU ARE NOT THE ONLYONE PAYING here so chill and wait till we get to our destination.

When you get this kind of people on your way, you should try to ignore them as much as you can. But people if you are one of those annoying ones, please stop! There is no reason to make others life uncomfortable just cause you don’t care about them.

Lair, Lair your pants are gonna set on fire

Since I can remember I can see people trying to use others. 

And using has 2 sides.

1 when you ask for help and this person accepts to help you

or

2 not telling that person that you want something from them and lie and manipulate to get it.

Case: You want the sex but not a relationship.

Example 1: you say the truth and get yourself a nice and sexy friend with benefit.

  Or

Example 2: you run after some random person and tell them that you love them and make them love/like you to get the sex you wanted. And then run when things get serious in that relationship.

Why do you prefer to lie people? Don’t you think someone may find out? Wouldn’t that be more trouble?

I don’t get it! 

I think lying takes to much time and effort. In that kind of stuff I’m really lazy. I don’t like waist time in doing much effort tin things that could be easier. I’ll rather sew by hand and not do such useless tasks.

Some prefer to say the truth and get a straight on and then try someone else. You never know. You may get a yes. Cause after they get you lying the question is: what now?

People will not trust you ever again. Having trust of the people around you is one of the most important things in life.

Why risk so much lying? 

Maybe you don’t care now. But some day you will. Even if it is on the day that you are dying you will and it will be late. 

If you are not worried about the people around you, what are you worried about? 

Not about what they may say. But about how the feel having you around.

Some people lie to get peoples acceptance. But doesn’t it cause the opposite?  And more if you did hurt someone with your lies.

Isn’t Life about the people that want to have you in there lives? 

Sometimes when you say the truth others may not like what you are saying or who you are but they would be in your life cause you are real. You are not faking anything and the know what to expect of you. Someone that cares about you (the real you) will love and accept you even if they don’t like you.

So why lie?

 If you are a”monster” show your true colors and then try to “fix” yourself. (Change what is not acceptable) cause being a douche bag is not acceptable at all.

Stop wasting your and other persons time and on acting stupid.